DATING ADVICE FOR MEN
DATING ADVICE FOR MEN
Dating tips for men is one thing that is really hard to come by. A lot of men would like to become appealing to the woman they like, even if they aren’t looking that handsome. Most women actually do not go after looks, in fact, some will tell you that the look isn’t the most important thing, but in actual truth, most men do not believe that. This is one of the reasons why online dating has become extremely popular in today’s world.
Now, the reality of the matter is that even if you successfully get an online date, you still need to cross the bridge of making her attracted to you. Therefore, you need to put some things into consideration in order to ensure that your dating life, both online and offline, become a successful one. Below are some dating advices you need to follow if you really want to up your game and not remain single anymore;
ADVICE #1 – WHAT DO YOU REALLY NEED?
First of all, you need to be certain about what need. What do you like? Who are you? Like if you are someone who is crazy about art, who usually has tickets to some art gala, would you like a woman who knows nothing about art but prefers to have you home instead of going for art events? There are a lot of men who usually end up with women who do not correspond with their interest or don’t like the kind of lifestyle they cherish. This usually happens for two major reasons; the woman is either on her best behavior or the guy isn’t self-aware enough to tell her something like “I won’t/can’t give up my love for art, I’ll always go for art events, are you okay with that.
ADVICE #2 – THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF IS WHAT YOU SHOULD BE
Don’t ever try to impress or attract a girl by being someone or something you are not. Have the belief that there’s someone out there who will love you for who you truly are. The catch here is that in order to attract the woman of your dreams, you may very well need to be the best version of yourself. Take your bath regularly, dress nicely, smell good, laugh whole hardheartedly, smile, ask lots of questions, exhibit some knowledge about an interesting topic, and most importantly listen to your lady. Always smile, nod and listen.
ADVICE #3 – RUN SOME CHEMISTRY CHECKS
This will enable you to know how your date is going. For instance, the both of you may be standing together waiting for a table, while you are waiting, lean into her gently, just a little and watch her reaction. Does she lean away, or worse still, step back? If these two scenarios play out, she’s not into you. But if she leans back into you or allows you to lean on her, then things are going quite well.
ADVICE #4 – GET YOURSELF SOME CONFIDENCE
Almost every woman -if not all- considers confidence as a deal breaker when it comes to selecting a guy. If you are not the confident type, then you need to work on getting some instilled in you. You can try talking to different women you don’t know, this helps a lot. But if you want a better route and a shorter cut, you need to be really good at something. Talking about something you are really good at is one way to build up confidence. If you know music to the core, and she enjoys music too, talking about music will make you drop your shy cover and she’ll be able to see how much confidence you’ve got in you.